Enliven your wedding day by keeping wedding trends that work and removing tired fads, creating unforgettable memories for a lifetime.
Weddings are a beautiful culmination of love, but as times change, so do wedding traditions. From first looks to late-night snacks, couples are redefining what stays and what goes on their big day. Let’s dive into some of these trends and why some are worth holding onto, while others might be better left in the past.
Keep: First Looks
First looks are here to stay, and for good reason. They offer a precious moment for couples to see each other before the whirlwind of the ceremony begins. Not only does it provide an opportunity for intimate photographs, but it also allows couples to share a private moment together before saying “I do.” First looks are the secret weapon of wedding timelines, since they allow you to take most of your couple and bridal party pictures before guests arrive.
Toss: Private Vows
While private vows are romantic, they can also disconnect couples from their guests during the ceremony. Authenticity and vulnerability are key during your public vows, as that allows everyone present to share in the love and commitment being expressed. Private vows are perfect in addition to sharing meaningful vows during your ceremony but shouldn’t replace the promises you make in front of your community of guests.
Keep: Welcome Events
Welcome events set the tone for the celebration and offer a chance for couples to greet their guests without the need for a formal receiving line. It’s a wonderful opportunity to mingle and connect with loved ones before the main event.
Toss: Traditional Wedding Cakes
As much as I adore beautifully crafted cakes, they may no longer be the centerpiece of modern weddings. Not only do they take up valuable space, but the tradition of smashing cake in your spouse’s face is disrespectful. Pausing the dance party to have guests watch you cut the wedding cake can also put a damper on what was an energetic evening. Instead, couples are opting for alternative desserts that reflect their personalities and tastes.
Keep: Bridal Portraits
Bridal portraits capture the essence of your wedding look while also giving you a chance to photo test your hair and makeup. Getting these solo portraits done a few weeks before the wedding day allows couples to focus on taking pictures together and with their wedding party during the festivities, rather than being off alone taking portraits or, worse, not having the chance to take any at all.
Toss: Garter and Bouquet Toss
Let’s face it, the garter and bouquet toss can feel outdated and awkward for all involved. The idea of someone diving under your dress or fighting over a bouquet may not align with the vibe of a modern wedding. Instead, couples are choosing to forego these traditional wedding trends in favor of more meaningful experiences.
Keep: Private Final Dances
One of my favorite wedding trends! After a day filled with celebration, there’s something magical about having a final dance with just you and your spouse. It’s a moment of intimacy amidst the excitement, allowing couples to reflect on the day’s events before their grand exit.
Keep: Late-Night Snacks
Who doesn’t love a midnight snack? Late-night snacks have become a staple at weddings, offering guests a chance to refuel after tearing up the dance floor. Whether it’s sliders, tacos, or even a gourmet coffee bar, these treats are sure to be a hit with everyone.
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The bottom line is weddings are as unique as the couples themselves, and it’s essential to choose traditions that resonate with your personal style and values. While some trends may come and go, the ones that stand the test of time are those that create lasting memories and meaningful experiences for everyone involved. So as you plan your special day, don’t be afraid to mix old traditions with new ones, creating a celebration that truly reflects the love you share.
Want to work with a wedding planner that will put the purpose for your wedding celebration first? Book a call with Alex Kilcoyne Weddings today and let’s design an exceptional wedding experience that your guests will be raving about for years to come.
